If at first you don’t succeed, try try again

Ok, so I posted here before and got a decent response from a few decent people….BUT the one I chose decided he didn’t really have time to date, much less spend any time together. My guess is I am looking in the WAY wrong spot for a connection to someone real but I will try [...]
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Shae:
Although I told him dat i liked him and always waited for his msg and he said we have no other option and we have to forget everything.
(29 November 2016)

Shae:
N he said we should not have any hard feelings for each other.
(29 November 2016)

Shae:
And he told me that he is not looking for a relationship.
(29 November 2016)

Shae:
So this started bothering me and we kinda had an argument with him where he said that we both are equally wrong.
(29 November 2016)

Shae:
But We had very less communication.We did not call or text each other much and m not blaming just him.
(29 November 2016)

Shae:
We went out and eventually we kissed and we had sex.
(29 November 2016)

Shae:
There is this guy in my office and we are actually a part of same team. he showed interest in me as he cracked some date joke where he asked me to go on a date with me and This is how we started talking and we kinda flirted with each other for two months.
(29 November 2016)

Bess:
What is the deal with my friend?
(29 November 2016)

Bess:
I've never been great about reading non-verbal cues, and so I am a little bit puzzled.
(29 November 2016)

Bess:
Almost about as soon as she started doing that, my friend walked up, put her arm around me, and placed her hand on my torso.
(29 November 2016)